I was robbed.
For the most part, I try to keep my blog mainly about silly things like dolls, make-up, reviews, photos around town or when I’m modeling for a friend. This post is a little different. I was robbed a couple days ago.
A couple days after.
I shouldn’t blame myself but I do, I’m always very cautious but things happen and it sucks. I’d simply had a single, low alcohol drink. As we were ready to leave to go home, a girlfriend of mine had to run into the ladies room in the bar, and in this bar the bathroom was single person potty. Otherwise, I would have went with her.
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Her guy-friend went to get the vehicle to drive us home and it was a little ways due to limited parking and parking fares, so he told me to just hang out, he would be back in about 5 minutes. One thing I am really thankful for is that my girlfriend had my purse with her as she was carrying her stuff with mine because I generally carry purses the size of luggage.
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Before I knew anything, this youngish-guy came up and told me to give him my wallet, I’m like, “What? No~” Before I could say I didn’t even have a wallet he hit me at the left eye. So he took my coat with my iphone (My beautiful Betsey Johnson!) All I could think is “How ghetto! To steal a coat!”
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Now, all I can think is… How can a guy pick on a little girl? Does it make you feel like a hell of a man stealing from a 5’1″ girl who is all alone? My greatest thanks is that all he wanted was to steal from me and also that Zsu had my purse with her. But, I survived and will continue to live and stay unafraid. I just wanted to share this, so that you all know that you are not alone.
Pretty painful.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:10
COMMENTS OPEN
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:15
Like I said before I cannot believe that someone hurt you like this. I hate that this happened to you because I know you, you are so kind and sweet. Did you file a police report?… I’m so angry at this , I’m so sorry if you need anything or to talk please let me know . Love ya !!
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:50
*hugs* You are one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met and I consider you like a sister. Know that I love you and I will be okay. ♥
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:17
Oh man hun, I am so sorry. There are some really desperate people out there, who will do ANYTHING to get what they want. Let that eye heal. Its a good thing it wasn’t worse. Hugs!
Irene
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:51
*hugs* I am just so glad that is was nothing worse. I have prayed to the higher cosmic power that I am fine, it’s just a bruise.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:33
I am so sorry honey! Are you ok? Let me know if you need anything! What a jerk off! I was mugged mid 1999! Some gangsters took my bag and broke my glasses. It was so scary! He pulled a gun on me and my life flashed before my eyes.
HOw ghetto to take a girls coat and hit a woman! What a coward!
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:53
Since you’ve been mugged, you know how scary it can be. It happens so fast. What kind of men break a girls glasses? I can only shake my head at how little breeding it takes to grow into these people. *hugs*
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 17:47
I’m so proud of you to share this story. I feel like such a shithead getting to be the bitch on the toilet. I’m so fucking mad at that black piece of shit, I want to kill him with his own fucking sagging jeans. I love you, I would kill myself if anything truly bad happened to you. You are so sweet and little and such an angel.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 18:00
Zsu, it’s not your fault baby! I know how bad you feel and I don’t blame you or Mikey. I am just so grateful that you and he were there to comfort me and take me home. I love you, I love you so much. Don’t feel bad, just feel happy that I’m okay. ♥
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:41
It’s not supposed to be my fault but dammit, it is. I should have forced you into the bathroom with me. Mikey should have made you walk all that way. I am so happy that you are okay but my god, how can some fuckface do that to anyone, much less a beautiful little girl!? I’m so fucking PISSED.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:50
♥ It is done and over with. I am moving on. I’ve bought a new phone, bought a new coat and my bruises are going away. I am thankful.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 18:18
Okay, I’m e-mailing you as well but fuck this shit. BRING THAT MOTHERFUCKER TO MY BOOT! We are gonna have a curb stomped fucker. Nobody, NOBODY touches a girl like that and ESPECIALLY Amber. Fucking dickless creature.
I am just so grateful that you are relatively okay.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 18:31
♥ ♥ ♥ Matt….. I love you. thank you for your support. ♥
Saturday, 12 January, 2013 at 22:27
I don’t know if this will make you happy but I noticed you changed your blog. Love ya.
Saturday, 12 January, 2013 at 22:47
…. Matt, you are such a geek. I love you, you always know when I’ve tweaked the script or changed headings. You can be my stalker, I love you.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 19:00
その悲しい物語は私の胸を痛ませた.
大丈夫ですか？
君を永遠に愛します!
ふるいつくよう可憐な少女だ!
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:39
大丈夫。 *抱擁* 私もあなたを愛しています。 ♥ ♥ ♥
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:13
Okay, this motherfucker better be glad I don’t know who the fuck he is. Because if I ever saw this piece of bloody shit I would nail that cock-sucking coward’s dick to a stump just to hack it off and shove it down his throat. Would it end there? The fuck-face wishes it would, because I would curb-stomp that bitch until they couldn’t scrape his brain of the sidewalk with a toothbrush. That fucking cowardly ghetto rat. He’s not even good enough for a rat or a flea or anything else.
I am still in such a rage over this. But I am so so so glad nothing worse happened. If this motherfucker did anything worse…I can’t even put words into how much rage and hatred that would be. So I am eternally grateful you are alright my girl. You know if you need me or want me or anything I can be down there in 2-3 hours tops and I would do it in a heartbeat. I love you, my dear, you are the absolute best and I’m so sorry this happened. I want to hug you really tightly.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:36
Sarah, baby. My little angel sister teacup of all time. You know I love you so much, right? You are my everything in this world. You even made me laugh by talking about curb stomping… You and Matt both brought up curb stomping. See his comment above. Seriously, I love you beyond all words. You talking about the toothbrush on the sidewalk is joy, my sweet. It is no wonder you are such a fabulous writer.
*hugs* I know that you are always there for me and I am you. You are my baby and I’ll hug you so tightly soon. Love you my little teacup.
Wednesday, 9 January, 2013 at 20:49
Sarah, I’m one of your sisters best friends in Seattle. I want to apologize for letting this happen to her. I want to join you in doing these horribly amazing things to this faszkalap! (That is, a dickhat!)
-Zsuzsanna
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 0:16
This is really unacceptable behavior in a person, I can’t believe he did this to you. You are a very strong young lady, and so brave! I am proud of you, if I were there I would have killed the man. I hope you feel better soon.
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 1:12
*hugs* I don’t know why people do what they do. I’m glad you think I’m brave. ^^ I’ll be okay, you know I will be. >HUG<
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 2:14
OH NO! I hope you ok? That painful to look. You still beautiful. <3
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 19:41
*hugs* Thank you Qinxu! You are so sweet.
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 5:22
I can understand all the anger coming from you all but more violence is NEVER the answer. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of harming another; you end up getting burned. We all love you in our own way and are very happy that you are not seriously hurt. Lets focus on that and let karma take care of her attacker. My daughters said you looked like you needed a hug, they are only 9 & 10 but even they knew that healing comes first. (In the back of my mind though I will enjoy a brief fantasy about me, him and a tee ball bat)
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 19:42
*hugs to you and your girl* Thank you Brian. ♥
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 19:33
omg! I’m just glad you wren’t really hurt! you poor thing! I want to protect yo u.
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 19:42
*hugggles* Thank you Arada.
Thursday, 10 January, 2013 at 21:34
Oh wow, this is really disheartening. Why do bad things happen to such amazing people? I can’t imagine anyone wanting to lay a hand on you. What a lousy bastard. All my love, sugar.
Friday, 11 January, 2013 at 1:02
*hugs* Thank you Belinda, you are so sweet. I don’t know why bad things happen to good people. Love you, babe.
Friday, 11 January, 2013 at 21:12
The sad fuckin’ part to this… I can actually believe it WOULD happen. People are so screwed up in the head, they actually thrive on taking advantage of people smaller than they are. It’s a sick sick world we are living in, makes me crazy mad. I love you sweetie, I hope that eye feels better soon!
Saturday, 12 January, 2013 at 0:53
Love to you Tash! You are right, I don’t understand people actions. Some things I can understand but at least, AT LEAST, you could not hit someone if you are in THAT MUCH need of a coat or something. Thank you honey, I’ll be just fine. ^^
Saturday, 12 January, 2013 at 3:09
HOLY FUCK!!! What kind of guy does that to a girl? What kind of guys does that to ANYBODY? A total coward, that is what! You have my support, girl! Did you go to the police?
Saturday, 12 January, 2013 at 22:46
♥ Not a guy at all, I think. Cowards are a dime a dozen, unfortunately. Love you sweetheart. I’ve always got your back as well. ♥♥
Monday, 14 January, 2013 at 5:47
*hugs* I was away for a few days and when I returned to read this I cried.
You were so strong love. And of course, none of it is your fault. My mother was mugged once right in the middle of the grocery store, in broad daylight. :/ Desperate people do desperate things…
I’m so sorry you had to endure this. But I’m glad your friends were there after to take you home safely. *hugs*
Monday, 14 January, 2013 at 23:48
*hugs my friend* It is okay, there is hardly a bruise left.
I am so sorry that it happened to your mother like that~ Did anyone even try to step it?
I’m not surprised it would happen in the day. My mugging happened at around 6pm, barely dark. It’s just so pathetic for people to attack another for whatever silly reason.
*hugs* I’m glad they were there too. It would have been a really long night if they weren’t. ♥ ♥ ♥
Wednesday, 16 January, 2013 at 20:35
Omg Amber, i’m soo sorry this happend to you. How could anyone even do something like that to you? You are by far the most sweetest person I’ve ever known. Seriously though, youre still gorgeous even with a black eye. Ive had some myself but you can still pull it off. No joke. I feel soo bad for you.
Wednesday, 16 January, 2013 at 21:23
*hugs* Thank you Laura! People are crazy, that’s all I can come up with. Thank you for the compliment on the black eye. There was this super sweet Korean guy who came up to me and said “Who’s the guy? I’ll kill him. You are still beautiful” *so hugs~~~~*